Meaningful Life

I found a test/article about Happiness.. n I found that is it meaningful..
Ermm.. I jz share what i remembered..


First-
Make a list(A) of 10 things that u think you need it in order to be totally make u happy..
As the Psychological researchers say normally many results tat they will put something similar in the list are..

Eg:
Have a lot of money
Have a perfect partner / marriage
A big house
healthy children
To be famous
Travel around the world

U must admit that the above of ur list (A) is almost a basket of goodies right? But will its reli make u happy?? If u reli write that than u r focusing on what u don't have but not what u have..
U r depends on getting those A,B,C things to make u happy..


Second-

Make a list (B) of 10 things that u greatest blessings you currently have it in your life.

Eg:

I have hands, feet, eyes, ears...
My parents are alive
One of my parents is alive
I am alive
I know how to read and write
I have a good friend I
have a home
I can talk, eat, walk

Now u have 2 list :
List A - The things u think u need in order to b happy
List B - The things/blessings u ledi have

Now from two of the list.. Choose each of it that u think is the best or u most need..
Example list A- Have a lot of money n list B- my parents are alive.
Which u rather have - Parents or Money?? For the billion dollars would u give up ur parents?
Or for those money n give up ur legs, eyes??


copyright....
'So if people already have a list of incredible blessings and are grumpy and dissatisfied, why should they believe that they would be happy if they had more things?'

Conclusion:
The formula we should not have is 'If I only had X, I'll b happy.'
The formula we should have is 'If I get X, I'll focus on not having Y.'
:)



*To me I reli felt tat it is meaningful.. how about u??